How can I free up my creative genius?

Most of us have had moments in our working lives when we don’t live up to our own expectations.

*Think of the manager who is unnecessarily harsh in a performance appraisal when she intended to be encouraging and motivating.

 *Think of how we prematurely reject new ideas from others when we intend to be inclusive and open to creativity.

 *Think of how we escalate a conflict situation with a co-worker when we intend to reach resolution. 

As Homer Simpson would say…. DOH!  We take ourselves by surprise……and when we go away and reflect on our behaviour, we wish the floor would open up and swallow us or there was a rock to crawl under.  For some time afterwards, we cringe whenever we think of it and berate ourselves saying, “What was I thinking?  I can do better than that!”  We certainly don’t entertain the possibility that there was anything good in what we did.

And yet, even in those very worst of working moments there is the seed of something good, if we take the time to find it.  No matter how small: an intention; a positive attitude; a good opening line; a calm demeanour; there will be something that we already do well, and that we can build on as we learn how to get the whole performance we are looking for.  I know what you are thinking:  “What a bunch of new age, PC nonsense!  It’s this sort of thinking that is sending the economy to the dogs!”

However, to fail to recognise strengths is akin to throwing the baby out with the bath water.  It is demoralising, demotivating and just plain false to think we have to start right from the beginning again.  As Dr. Max Clayton states, “…there tends to be an over-emphasis on the inadequacies of people….When people become aware of what is (good) in their functioning,…problematic areas of their life become easier to manage.”

Learning how to shift a behaviour or attitude in ourselves, therefore, is most effectively done using a strengths-based learning approach.  A strengths–based approach to learning is simply one that builds on what you already can do: your current talents and capabilities are the spring board that takes you from good to great.  Common sense you might say, and yet really, how common is it?

So why not focus on what is working, rather than on what is not?

At Quantum Shift, a strengths-based approach is inherent in the methodology we use.  At the heart of the method is the premise that each of us has within us the role of the creative genius; the seed or potential to respond creatively and appropriately to any situation we experience.  As we grow up, we use our creative genius to work out how we will respond to the challenges life brings and we develop a whole range or repertoire of other roles in support; and we continue to do this until the day we die.    Our ability to respond well across many contexts and situations is dependent on the roles we have at our disposal; and because we develop our role repertoire directly by experience, this means every experience is a learning opportunity, a chance to grow our role repertoire.

Below is a simple method you can use to help you learn and build on the strengths you have already developed.  This exercise is always easier if you can enlist someone to help you out.  Bring to mind a recent interaction or conversation with another person at work, where you would like to have done it differently (or better).  Re-enact this specific incident or moment with your ‘helper’, so they get to see and experience what occurred even if it is only from your perspective. Remember it is YOUR performance that is at the heart of matter, so what YOU did is the key to the situation.

 FIRSTLY, ask the question: What did I do well? It is all too easy to go to what you did badly, but it is essential to start with what went well.  This is where the other person is invaluable as they are more dispassionate and therefore more likely to see the good as well as the bad.  List everything you can observe, no matter how small; you are building your self-awareness as you do this.

 SECONDLY, ask:  What did I do too much of?  Sometimes we do things so well that they become habitual or overly comfortable default settings, and we over-use them, at the expense of other things that might get us the outcome we are looking for.  There is nothing inherently ‘wrong’ in what we did, but we over-used it to the point that it got in the way of an ideal outcome.

 THIRDLY, ask: What could I have done more of?  What other things could I also have done in this moment that would have got the outcome I wanted?  What resource within myself did I under-use?

Making this analysis is vital in order to develop a new behaviour or attitude.  Reflecting in this way allows us to free up our creative genius and grow something new from what we already have and who we already are.

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